Deconstructing Self-Actualization (Part II) – Mapping out Success

In the last post we outlined the importance of having clarity of intent and from there we ultimately established the why factor. In this post we will establishing the where factor, in this case, what is our ultimate goal? As mentioned previously, too often do we see people going with the flow indicating their lack of direction.

Let’s suppose that our lives were metaphorically represented by an airplane and each of us are pilots that need to travel from Los Angeles (LAX) to London (LHR). In order to properly fly this aircraft, assuming we were properly trained, we need to consider all of the factors like altitude, wind speed, turbulence, etc. before embarking on this trip. When it comes to piloting our lives, we simply hop in the cockpit, take off and hope that we get there. The result – some of us end up around Greenland, some of us end up in Algeria, while the rest run out of fuel along the way.

 

Bottom line: we need goals so we can gage our trajectory, better allowing us to assess our results and calibrate if needed.

Taking little steps in the direction of our goal is what will ultimately manifest a massive change, as opposed to the quantum leaps conventional wisdom forces us to believe. Michael Jordan, Muhammad Ali and Pelé did not become great athletes out of sheer luck. They all were deeply focused as they practiced for years on end, progressing forward in small increments, compounding, towards the legacies we read about today.

The current state of our careers, finances, health and personal development are all fruits of actions we performed, both at a conscious and unconscious level, which was compounded over time resulting in the reflection you see on the other side of the mirror. Jeff Olson explores this very concept in depth in his book The Slight Edge. Hence why we must understand where we are aiming as opposed to simply winging it.

In sum, reflect on your ambitions and develop a plan, take action and reassess whether your daily actions are working towards or against your goals. Though the results may not be seen today, your consistency will manifest massive change when compounded over time. The little things really do count. You will be amazed.